straight sex is a misogynistic construction

the symbology of sex vibrates deeply with the misogynistic conception of the world. the vagina is conceived as a crevasse, a hole, an emptiness to be filled, occupying only negative space. the penis is the filler, occupying positive space; it is the source and origin of pleasure (the man being the "pleaser"). the penis/man creates sex when he enters the void/woman (let there be light...); he performs this creation in the process of taking her over, of invading her then conquering her. in dominating her he fulfills her needs and desires, needs and desires that she could never fulfill for herself.